Sunday, May 20, 2012

From the Files of my Mind.....

WARNING: The following Cartoons contain massive in-jokes and self-reflection......


Sorry for the cut off. At the bottom right, he says "You're not the woman I married"

Originally drawn in 2010. This was inspired by an incident in a discussion group where a white German reasoned that she understood the shoes of black women because she was married to a black man. Yeah, exactly. T_T'

I'll leave the groom's reaction for your interpretation.


Don't we all have that one place that we've been working to get out of and never see again? Well, I do did. This was my exhale.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

A WIN 4 Internets, A fail for our Future

Came across this image while searching for "someecards":



The answer sheet belonged to a male student. The teacher's notes read: "Who in their right mind would do this?" What's more obvious that her ignorance of internet vagina-punchers, is her seemingly selective ignorance towards innocent childhood logic.


If there was a perfect opportunity for preventive education against female harassment, this teacher missed it by many miles. This young male student's answer suggests that he's so innocent he could only imagine "sexual bullying" as the girl version of being punched in the testicles. The teacher could've used this time to explain "sexual bullying" and how it differed from the bullying as the young student understood it, thus influencing the way he treated girls as well as his view toward women as he matured to Manhood.

Instead, she ridicules him.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Redefining American Adulthood






How can one be an adult in their parents' home? Here's a few ideas:

  • Adults don't have to be reminded to clean their room.
  • Adults can naturally help out with the dishes.
  • An adult cleans the garage because it has to be done
  • An adult doesn't wake their parents at 3am.
  • An adult never returns home without bringing something home for mom and/or dad.
  • An adult always considers their parents in financial decisions.
  • An adult does not make decisions that would effect their parents or their home.
  • An adult knows how to keep home life and social life separate.
  • An adult takes care of their parents as much as the parents take care of them.
  • An adult understands and accepts the changing times.
  • An adult stops acknowledging cohorts who live alone but refuse to grow up.


Who says you have to have your own place to be grown up?

Thursday, May 10, 2012

What I know now…….




When I first received my Dachshund, I thought I had everything needed to help care for him. The nearest vet, what foods to avoid, even guidebook on Dachshunds. Even the lessons I learned from previous family dogs were applied to my new pet , but even that wasn't enough for what was in store.  I don't regret the love and care I gave him, but I still wish the ailments that he suffered could have been prevented.

Perhaps others can learn from my mistakes:




Urinary Track Infections

Not long after he left puppyhood, Snoop contracted urinary stones which lead to a surgical incision and $33 a month for special food. Years later I read a book on Dachshunds that warned about this common infliction.

Tooth Abscesses

This is one of the few ailments I caught early. I knew Snoop's face loofa a bit asymmetrical and when he winced at my touch, a visit to the vet would follow. Tooth abbesses can lead to infection and death. Luckily, it didn't lead to his.


Say "No" To Stairs

If we knew he'd end up having slipped spinal disks, he'd never would've let Snoop run up and down the stairs. A dachshund's long spine can be a burden to it, so make sure he or she isn't jumping heights s/he shouldn't be, like barcaloungers, long stairs and even beds. They have a tendency to jump off high platforms as if they were cats. Unlike felines they land on their backs.

Pet Insurance 

When we learned about Pet insurance around 2005, Snoop was already 11 years old, too old to qualify. It definitely would've helped us with that spinal disk surgery years after.


Despite all that, he did pass in his sleep at 17. Not a lot of dogs can do that. Not a lot of owners can say that.